A Celebration!

   The other day and today we celebrated our first born child.  All Star Boy turned 14 years old this week!  Yes...14!!!  Sometimes it seems like just yesterday when we were just getting to know this wonderful little baby boy, and now he's almost a man!  He is such a blessing to our family!  When he was born I was overwhelmed by the feelings of love that I felt for this child.  I never even knew that it was possible to love anyone else as much as I loved this baby boy.  He was the light of my life and the joy in my heart!  (Well, he still is, I just have more lights in my life and more joys in my heart, now!)  Seeing him grow up has been such a pleasure.  Don't get me wrong, we have our ups and downs, and life is not all sunshine and roses, but in retrospect, he's a great kid and I'm proud to call him my son!  :)

  To say that this child is a Lego fanatic would be an understatement!  He eats, sleeps, and breathes...Lego's!  Yes he loves balls, and bouncing them, and all things sports and baseball, but other that that, Lego's is where it's at for this kid!  He was abundantly blessed with lots of love and lots of Lego's for his birthday.  His daddy and I didn't buy him any Lego's, I'll have you know!  We focused on his passion for baseball, and bought him baseball stuff that he loves just as much as Lego's, and some books (okay, okay, the 2 books we got him were Lego's collectors books, though).

      The other day we celebrated him by talking him out and doing all the things he wanted to do including, among other things, going to get donuts, going shopping for the perfect Lego set, and going to eat as a family at Olive Garden.  Then today we had a few of his friends over to hang out with him.  They played Lego's, snacked out, played pool, snacked out, played more games, and did I say snacked out!?!?  Wow, those growing boys can eat!  LOL!  

  It was a great day and a great week celebrating him and thinking about this great kid and what he means to us and what he adds to this very grateful family!  I consider myself richly blessed to be the mother to such a wonderful... dare I say...young man?!?!

Feeling very blessed,
It's a Lacy Life

Christmas and Holiday Traditions.

  Recently, at a Christmas party that my family attended, we were asked to go around the room and tell about our Christmas traditions.  As I thought about it for a few moments, I drew nothing but a blank!  I couldn't think of ONE SINGLE Christmas tradition that our family had!  I was so nervous as it was getting closer to our turn to speak, for fear that we actually didn't have any traditions!  We were listening to many wonderful traditions that other families were involved in.  Some families were telling of making traditional meals that had been passed down from generation to generation, or other special traditions that spanned many years.  Even after hearing some of the other traditions, hoping something would trigger my memory, I was still drawing a blank!  

  As I sat there, I began to wonder what was wrong with us and why we didn't make traditional meals from our ancestral homelands like some of the other families?  There must be something we do, some worthwhile tradition, right?!?!  Were we creating those memories and traditions that our children would remember well into adulthood?  Would they have anything to pass down to their own children, our traditions (if we even had any!?!?), because they had such fond memories of them from their own childhood?  Or were we just succumbing to the commercialism of the season and letting materialism seep into our home, and the holiday really was all about "the gifts" for our family?!?!  My heart sank as I thought of that possibility! 

  Well, thanks to one of the women there, and time constraints, all of the families didn't end up having to share, thank goodness, because at that moment, I thought that we were a family without any traditions!  The rest of the party went fine, but I couldn't shake the feeling that maybe we were in fact a family without any traditions!  

  After that moment, I was on a mission to find out just what our traditions were...and I am happy to report that we DO have some traditions after all!  Whew!  Granted our traditions may not involve making meals that grandma, great-grandma, and great-great grandma before her made, and they do not span generation after generation and years of history, but we have managed to create some traditions over the years for our family.  Some of them we've only just begun in the last few years, some we've started and stopped, and some we've been doing for several years and many we very well may do for years to come.  We have the usual family traditions of seeing mom's family on Christmas Eve, and dads family on Christmas Day, but we also have some that are just unique to what our immediate family have created and we hold them very dear.  They are traditions that the children ask about and look forward to every year.
 

  I named this post "Christmas and Holiday Traditions", because we've done a few things for Thanksgiving and New Years as well, and I thought they were noteworthy as great family fun that our family enjoys, too. 

  Our Thanksgiving traditions that we have is that we always have Thanksgiving dinner at my aunts house as well as at my husbands mom's house.  Also, the Macy's Day Parade is a big hit at our house, as we get ready to spend the rest of the day with loved ones!  Another thing that we've done for about 4 or 5 years (or times) now is that we go over to our dear friends house for desert and visiting after our other stops.  This has been a wonderful tradition that we value along with seeing our biological family, these special people are like family to us.  We certainly enjoy this time of fun and fellowship with these special people.  Although we missed this tradition this year due to sickness, bad time management, and planning on our behalf, we look forward to this tradition in the years to come!  :) 

                                                Another tradition that we have is actually a New Years Eve tradition. We do the family thing and stay home to watch the ball drop (yes-the kiddos stay up until midnight, too) as a family.  I allow each of the kiddos to pick out their very own treat-which is quite a fun thing in a family with many children- that we buy or I make for us.  We put out all the treats for everyone to share and enjoy, along with another family favorite -PIZZA!  This year "All Star Boy" choose Christmas Cookies as his treat, "Amish Girl" choose mom's famous Chili-Cheese Dip with tortilla chips, "Nature Girl" choose Cheetos (her new favorite snack), and "The Entertainer" choose mom's famous Pickle-Dip with crackers.  We usually have special drinks as well, this year we had Cherry 7up, Egg Nog, and Warm Spiced Apple Cider.  We set out all of the snacks and graze on them all evening while we play games, watch movies, talk, and pray in the new year.  Oh, and of course we always have  a nice warm fire compliments of my dear husband, which keeps us warm and cozy all night.

  
  One of the Christmas traditions that we have is that we always take time to go driving around looking at Christmas lights displays.  What fun!  I absolutely love Christmas lights, and my children seem to, too!  Even my husband has learned to appreciate the beauty of the Christmas light displays!  :)  I always try and make a point to do some sort of display at our home as well, so others can experience that same joy we do, when they pass by our home.  I never manage to quite get that over-the-top, gaudy-but-tasteful Christmas light display accomplished that I would like to, but it's not easy to talk my husband onto a ladder in the winter!  We've been doing this for as long as we've been a family.  I used to do this even before I got married, it's just something I've always liked to do.

  Here's a Christmas tradition that I just remembered, and that is that I really try and take the kiddos and I (and my husband-if he's available) to a Christmas show or performance of some sort.  We've gone to the Nutcracker Ballet in the past and this year, and we've also gone to Christmas performances and shows at our former church, and other churches.  This year we went and saw the Augsburg College choir and orchestra at Central Lutheran downtown with some friends, which was fabulous!  And we went back to our former church for their Christmas performance which was awesome!  We've gone to North Heights Church for their Christmas plays, as well.  So we try and do some type of plays, ballets, and concerts as the opportunities present themselves.

  Another Christmas tradition is that we go to a parade that we have locally.  The difference between this parade and your normal parade is that it is at night and the floats are all decked out with lights!  All of the floats have a theme like Santa, his sleigh, and his reindeer, or Mother Goose, or Hansel and Gretel, etc.  It's called the Holidazzle Parade, and we have went almost every year since the kiddos were babies.  We've also taken this opportunity to go and see the Macy's display at the Macy's downtown location, since that's where the parade is, too.  This is always a fun tradition for our family.  Although we haven't gone for 2 years, we will probably re-visit it next year.  The year we went with our friends the Taffy's was the best!  :)

  For the last few years, we have had the tradition of performing and attending our support groups Christmas Variety Show.  This is such a nice evening to get our minds set on the true meaning of Christmas, as well as spend some time with some of our homeschool friends, as well as our family members that attend.  We also participated in our music organizations Christmas Recital, which the children love to perform in and they really enjoy seeing the other students perform as well.  Another thing we've done is to participate in the girls' tambourine group's performances at nursing homes.  As well, the children and I have participated in our homeschool support groups Service Project performing and caroling for the seniors at a nursing home.  These things help us to serve others we know and in the community through music (piano, guitar, and singing), tambourine, and helps us keep focus on others during this "me" time of year.  This has really been a blessing for our family, seeing the smiles on the faces of the people as they see the children and families perform! 

  Another Christmas tradition that we have is decorating our home and our tree for Christmas as a family.  This is so much fun!  When we decorate the tree, the kiddos put 99% of the ornaments on the tree and I purpose not to worry about if it is "even" or how it looks!  :)  My job is to take out every ornament and decoration, look at it, give it either to it's rightful owner (one of the kiddos), or whomever needs something to put up, and tell the story about that particular ornament or decoration.  I talk about things like when we (or they) got it, what it means to me/us/them.  It might be something that belonged to one of my grandmothers or my mom, or my husband or his family.  This has become a really important part of our Christmas traditions, as it not only helps us focus on our Savior, as we have many angels, and manger-type ornaments and decorations, but it also helps us remember our loved ones past and present, our children's first Christmases, when mom and dad were married, etc.

  A tradition that we started either last year or the year before is that we do a  Christmas puzzle as a family.  Any guest that comes over during the holidays is welcome and encouraged to join us and help as well.  This had become a really fun and sweet time of working together towards a common goal, and a nice quiet time to be together.  Sometimes we sit for like an hour trying to figure it out together, and sometimes we just find a piece here or there as we pass by the puzzle table.  It's not a big important thing, just another thing the kiddos and I look forward to and another thing to bring us together as a family.  The other day as my eldest son and I were finishing up on the Christmas puzzle, I asked him if he wanted to start another one, he turned to me and said, yeah, next Christmas, I can't wait!  That was really special to me, something for the both of us to look forward to, and a time to be together again next year.  

  Last but not least, our last 2 Christmas traditions.  The first one is that we always have some sort of cake and we pray to and sing "Happy Birthday" to the one we celebrate... Jesus!  The kiddos love this tradition and they all get to blow out the candles in His honor.  The last tradition I thought of is that we read an advent story every year and every night (or at least when we remember or have the time) during advent.  Usually I read it, but this year my dear husband has read many of the stories, too.  The kiddos really look forward to this time, it brings us closer as a family, and more importantly it brings us closer to the Lord and puts our focus on the true meaning of Christmas, which is that precious baby boy that was born all those years ago in a manger...Jesus!

        
  So there you have it, we are a family of traditions after all!  It's holiday traditions "Lacy Life" style!  I hope you enjoyed hearing about our traditions, and I would love to hear about your favorite tradition in my comments!

Until next time...Happy New Year and Happy holiday traditions for you and your family,
It's a Lacy Life

Christmas Greetings!

                                                            Merry Christmas 2011                        

  I would like to wish everyone out there a VERY MERRY CHRISTMAS!!!  What a wonderful time of year and a great opportunity to celebrate the birth of our Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ!!!  I am so thankful that He came to earth for us, that He was born of the virgin Mary, that He died for our sins, and that He rose again.  :)  MERRY CHRISTMAS to everyone, and HAPPY BIRTHDAY to JESUS!!!

Blessings,
It's a Lacy Life

P.S.  Coming soon...I was going to write a post entitled Christmas Traditions, but I am just simply too tired to do so!  Look for it...coming soon!

The "Characters" in My Lacy Life

  I am finding that it is not as easy to find time to blog as I thought it would be.  Okay, I guess I ought to give myself a break, because IT IS the holiday season after all, and we have been extremely busy preparing for Christmas, and doing Christmassy-type things!  I plan on posting another blog about that, hopefully soon.  I certainly don't have a lack of ideas to write about, just a lack of time to write them all down!  :)

  So I thought that my second blog post should be about the "characters" in my Lacy life.  Most people who will read this blog know who my "characters" are, but just in case there is anyone out there checking out my blog that doesn't know us, or if people who know us would like to know us better, I thought some introductions were in order.

  First of all, I myself have been happily married to my dear husband for 15 years.  I am very blessed to be the mother of 4 children, 2 boys and 2 girls.  I also consider myself to be very blessed to be a stay at home mom and a homeschooling mom to these 4 children.  You will learn more about me in the future, but let me introduce you to the other "characters" in my life.

 

Mister Lacy Life, my husband, is a great guy!  He's very laid back, friendly and a hard working man. He works as a Special Needs School Bus Driver, and considers his job to be a personal ministry for these children.  I often tell my children that daddy's never met a stranger, because he's just one of those people that talks to anyone and is friendly to everyone.

  My oldest child is a boy of 13 years old (2 weeks shy of 14).  I've decided to give this child the online nick-name of "All Star Boy".  This bouncing baby boy was born bouncing (a ball that is) and always ready to play!  Okay, okay, he wasn't literally BORN bouncing a ball, but for as long as I can remember, he's been bouncing, tossing and catching balls!  Baseballs, basketballs, super balls, tennis balls, footballs, you name it, he loves to play!  If there is a sport or an activity out there... he's game.  Speaking of game...he loves to play games!  Whether it be a game of baseball, a board game, a game of cards, or a game of tag, he's there.  Pretty much every where we go he brings with anything from a deck of cards to all of his baseball equipment, just in case there is an opportunity to organize a game of something!  This child is very athletic but he also has a brilliant mind.  He really loves to read as well.  He dreams of being a baseball player someday.  This child is my right-hand-young man, as he is always ready to help me around the house with whatever I need.

  My next child is a girl of 12 years old.  This sweet baby girl is truly a sweetie!  This child I have decided to nick name "Amish Girl".  She is fascinated with all things old-fashioned, Amish, girly, and lady-like.  From tea-parties and dresses, to knitting and creating things from scratch with her hands, she could have easily been born 2 centuries ago and been in her glory!  This child is very creative and musical.  She dreams of being a missionary, a mid-wife, but mostly a mom.  She's very loving and compassionate.  She's always there to lift people up if they are feeling bad, sad, mad or anything but happy.  This child is my second in command right-hand-lady, or my "personal assistant" as I sometimes like to call her.

  My third child is a girl of 10 years old.  This spirited baby girl was born letting people know that she will not be pushed around!  I have decided to nick name her "Nature Girl", because she has a true, genuine love for nature and creatures!  Her ideal day would be spent fishing with her daddy and catching frogs and tadpoles on the shoreline all day.  ( Yes, she's a daddy's girl! :)  )  If it was up to her, we would house frogs, horses, and any other creature we happen to run across on our adventures.  What a blessing to have a child like this to help you appreciate God's world and God's creations.  She is very spunky, loves to sing, and there's also a side to her that is very princess-like.  She likes to dress-up and act out movies, plays or books.  Right now it's Anne of Green Gables or Little House on the Prairie she's acting out.  She's not really expressed what she would like to be when she is older, but she asks lots of questions and is always up for a good debate!

  My youngest child is a boy of 8 years old.  This baby boy was also born bouncing, but unlike my older bouncing baby boy it's not because he's always bouncing a ball (although he loves to, and is often found playing games and sports as well), it's more so because he's always so bouncy!  He's very happy, friendly, and literally bouncing for joy in-your-face!  I've decided to nick name this child  "The Entertainer".  This child loves to entertain people and make people smile and laugh!  For as long as I can remember he's been such a friendly child, and a people magnet!  He loves to be the center of attention.  He dreams of being a football player someday.  With this child, who needs television, we have our entertainment built right in to our family.  This child is also very philosophical, and always has the best questions and observations.

  Well, these are the "characters" you will be reading about on the It's A Lacy Life blog.  I better wrap this up now.  I hope you enjoyed my second blog post and I hope you are enjoying getting to know the "characters" in my Lacy life!  :)

Until next time,                                                                      
It's a Lacy Life

First Blog Post

  Hello out there!  Whomever you may be!?!?  This blog is many years in the making.  I have been thinking about it, and wanting to start it for several years now.  I am so happy to finally be connected, thanks to my dear friend Mrs. Taffy!  :) 

  I guess I will start with why I wanted to start this blog.  I wanted to start this blog for many reasons, but firstly I wanted to document my families story.  The special times, good times, bad times, mundane times, holidays, traditions, activities, and fun stuff that we do everyday sometimes gets overshadowed by our daily grind, and this way I can look back (and so can they) on all (or at least some) of the memories we've created over the years.  Along with that, I am also hopeful that this blog will fulfill my need to document our life in story and in picture, as I've always wanted to scrapbook, but never seem to find the time, energy, or means to do.  For some reason, blogging seems to accomplish the same thing, but quicker and cheaper!  I've always wanted to write a book, and hopefully this blog will fulfill my need to write, which I never seem to have the time for.

  I am also looking at this blog as a way to connect with friends and family that I might not be able to connect with as much as I would like to in real life, by sharing our journey online with them. 

  One day, if the Lord is willing... I desire this blog to be, not just a documentation of our family life, but I would love to have the honor of being an encouragement for other people...of course, not in my own strength or by my own doing...but through HIM who strengthens me!

  Last but not least, and truly above all, I desire to bring honor and glory to my Father in Heaven and my Lord Jesus Christ through this blog and really- all that I do!  

  Well that's that!  I'm just about done with my first blog post!  Thank you for stopping by and reading my thoughts!  I would love to hear what you thought...I think!?!?  :)

  Whew!  It's over!  :)

Until next time,
It's a Lacy Life